Relationships and Social Media

Well hello……It’s been awhile since I’ve had the chance to post. But I am back…Yay.

First off, I want to thank my new followers for following me and being so patient with my absence. You’re appreciated for sure.

Okay, so back to the topic at hand. The other day I was thinking about how social media may or may not affect relationships. With the main source being Facebook. Facebook give people the courage to approach people they may would never approach in person. Allow people to be preyed on because normally mostly everybody air out their dirty laundry on there. So with that being said people let the world know when they are having issues in their relationships and that give others the courage to jump in the DMs..

I think that Facebook should be shut down..I mean that is my personal opinion. That way people can go back to living their lives without feeling like they need approval from others. This day and time it’s almost like everything is done for likes and comments. Thanks social media…ugh!!  Once I get married I don’t want me or my husband to deal with social media. I want us to live a normal life. The people that need to know what  we are doing and how we are doing will know.

I actually go months without Facebook, I am a big fan of Twitter though because I follow so many encouraging God fearing people on there. I do use Snapchat and mostly for the crazy filters but other than that I try to keep my life as low key as possible.

I am going to end this post by asking for your opinions on social media and how they may or may not affect relationships. And not only intimate relationships but also relationships with your kids and family and friends. We get so tied up with strolling our news feeds that we ignore the people that really matter the most.

Please comment and let me know how you feel…


I am back!!!

Hello friends,

I am back after taking a little break. I haven’t been writing a lot lately well at least not on here but I have been posting on Twitter and writing in my journal.

There’s been some exciting things going on in my life and as a saint I know that there are more to come and that alone make me sooooo happy.. God is moving on my behalf and making everything new. I hope that this post finds everybody in good health and good spirit as well.

I just wanted to check in and say hello to you guys..

Eyelashes popping!

IMG_3794.JPGWho love long and full lashes? This girl does lol 

I went into my local Dollar General and was on the hunt for some new mascara and what made this journey even more exciting is that I had a coupon(I love saving money) anyway I went in and decided to go with the mascara pictured above.

And let me just say that this is my new favorite mascara. My lashes are long and full once it’s applied and it doesn’t clump up. So that is a plus for me. I don’t really wear any other make-up for real so I like to have my eyelashes to stand out. 

I seriously give this covergirl mascara two thumbs up.. 

Comment and tell me what is your favorite brand of mascara.. I would love to hear from you. I want to eventually learn how to put lashes on but that is another post lol 

I hope you guys are enjoying your Saturday so far and I hope to hear from you. Oh yea ROOOOOOLLLLLLL Tiddddddeeeee 

Clay Mask!!

IMG_3947So, I have been seeing this advertised in all the magazines that I have been looking in lately, and instantly thought I really want to try it. 

I went to Wal-Mart the other day and finally decided to purchase the two that I thought I would like the best. I have not used them yet though. But don’t worry I am going to start using it tonight and will check back in within a week or so to give my thoughts on this product.

Have any of my followers used these products and want to give me your feed back? I am all about clear skin and especially my face. If you have please comment and let me know what you think about it. 

I look forward to trying it out for myself as well as hearing from you guys.

My favorite Fall/Winter food.

IMG_3517So, its officially Fall and I love this time of the year. There’s cooler temps, leaves are falling and I get to cook up my favorite food(Taco Soup) for this time of the year. I love this meal because not only does it taste yummy but it’s really simple to make. I love my crock-pot by the way lol. 

All the ingredients that you need are pictured above. The most you will have to do is brown the meat and open the cans. Ugh, my can opener is so loud lol but hey. Other than that you dump everything in the crockpot and cook it for 6 hours.

By the time I get out of church and sit at my Mother house for awhile my dinner will be ready once I step foot through the door. 

I like to add shredded cheese and a little sour cream to mine once I dip some into a bowl. It’s so good. My co-worker knows when I tell her that I am making some that it will be my lunch for the entire week lol so this week will be no different.

Comment and let me know what is your favorite food to eat just in the Fall/Winter months. And if you never had taco soup you should really give it a try. There are other recipes for it but this is the one that I prefer. Also, let me know if you have a different recipe.


Lip balm

IMG_3332First, I want to start off by saying happy Sunday to all. I hope everyone day has been grand so far. 

Okay, moving on LOL..One thing to keep in mind about me is that I am a big fan of lip balm and especially carmex, yesterday when I went to the store I laid eyes on this beauty that’s pictured. I have been using it since I purchased it and I must say I will be buying more of this product. 

My lips are important and especially in the Winter months. So I am always looking for the next best thing when it come to lip balm, but I always manage to end up back using only carmex 🙂 

So, tell me do you have a favorite lip balm that you would recommend to others? Speaking of recommendations, I would recommend that you guys try this carmex, it has a good smell unlike the original kind and it leave your lips feeling soft and smooth. Let me know if you like it.  

Like and comment and let me know what you guys are using this Winter to keep those smoochers soft…I will be waiting to hear from you.


BibleMarriageGettyImages-157585166-589393295f9b5874ee011e92It’s like this day and time people are getting married more so for a show. To see who can have the biggest ring and wedding. Almost like it’s not even based on love anymore.

I want my marriage based on God and love. We can get married in my living room, with $9.00 rings from Walmart as long as God is involved and the love that we share is real. 

I am very observant, so I notice married people all the time not acting like how I vision married people to act.(How should married people act? you may ask)  Well, that’s simple; married people shouldn’t be clubbing and partying all the time and especially without their spouse, shouldn’t stay out all night with friends, and they dang sure shouldn’t  be flirting with other people.

Some people would let other people failed marriages make them bitter about the idea of being married themselves, but not me. I actually look forward to being a good wife. I know that I have prayed about it and I know that God will deliver. 

If you are a husband or wife reading this post, what are your thoughts on the things that I listed above that a husband or wife shouldn’t do? Comment please and let me know how you feel, singles can chime in too though.

Dear Future Husband!!

0117f8735389376069289ff3b4d35c43--looking-for-love-my-loveI’ve prayed for you way before I met you, prayed for us, our kid(s) I asked God to place a man exactly like you in mine and my daughter life. A man that worship God more than I’ll ever know, as well as a man that love God more than he loves me. 

I look forward to the days we spend together. My lifetime prayer partner. I want you to know other than Jesus, you can lean on me and let me love you. Open your heart, and lets enjoy this journey together.

I love you and I’m in love with you, and I want this forever. 

As you can see I knew that I loved you before we met, God sent me a message on this day, and I feel good about meeting you soon. Funny thing is, I don’t know when or where we will meet. But that is how my Father in heaven work.

See you soon,

Love your wife

IMG_3309Water…Water….Water…. As of today it’s been exactly two weeks since I’ve been drinking nothing but water, well besides my cup of coffee in the mornings… But let me just say, I can truly tell the difference in how I feel, and how my skin look. Even though I don’t have a problem with acne, but I can still see the glow from drinking enough water. I am so proud of myself, because usually by now I am at the vending machine at work pushing the coca cola selection. And I would also have some at home. Dinner just wouldn’t be dinner without a nice cold coke. Lol

I have to thank the Lord for will power, because it’s not always easy but so worth it.


Do you guys have anything that you just feel like you got to have day to day that you want to stop? Lets talk about it. Share your thoughts please.

Peace be still

images Have you ever been driving down the road and glance at the sky, and it’s just so beautiful and blue? That’s the moment I have to whisper “Peace be still”

So much is going on in the world. If you don’t have a personal relationship with Jesus it just might drive you crazy to think about it. Everyday in the news someone is either missing,been robbed,murder,or something horrible. I often hear people say you never hear anything good anymore.

I think to myself we can only see the good in the world when we are born again, and when we give our life to Christ. At that moment when we know that our names have been written in the Lamb’s book of life we have a different outlook on life.

Don’t let the beauty of this life pass you by because you are living in fear. Follow Jesus. And you will always have that feeling of that peace is being still. Walk by FAITH and not by sight.